How To Avoid An Expensive Divorce

How To Avoid An Expensive Divorce: Dear Blokes, A Love Letter From Us

The new book from bestselling author Monique van Tulder – August 2026.

We’re not leaving – well, we might take some time out, but not leaving forever. We’re changing.

And if you’re the bloke watching the woman in your life feeling better, more determined, suddenly talking about solo trips and saying no to things she used to just absorb – this book is for you.

How To Avoid An Expensive Divorce is not a guilt trip. It’s a love letter. Written with empathy, honesty, and a fair amount of humour. It’s the book we couldn’t quite find the words for ourselves.

The invisible load we’ve been carrying, why we’ve been carrying it – for the most part, alone – what we actually need from you, and why getting this right is the best investment you’ll ever make. In us. In our relationship. In our future together. Partnering with Purpose, we call it.